Stop being pitiful

"The Lord said to Samuel, "How long will you mourn for Saul, since I have rejected him as king over Israel? Fill your horn with oil and be on your way..."

1 Samuel 16:1

You've been feeling sorry for yourself long enough.  It's time to move on - get over it; it is time to be on your way to new and better things in life.

Listen to what people are saying to you - God may be speaking through them.

"And the Lord told him: "Listen to all that the people are saying to you - it is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected me as their king."

1 Samuel 8:7

Listen, really listen, to the words people say to you, especially repeated words from different people, as there in their words may just lie your answers to prayers you've been seeking answers to.  As well, when you truly listen, you may just realize that you've been listening only through the ears of your worldly self - not through the ears of your heart - which just may bring you to a whole new revelation of your life.

The chief Cornerstone

“… The [very] Stone which the builders rejected has become the chief Stone of the corner [cornerstone].” Luke 20:17 AMP

We must be very careful of what and whom we reject, because it may just be that when the tables turn, (which they will on those living in sin), that the what or whom may be the one thing, or one person who could have been the answer to your prayers.  Therefore, always remember, your answer, help, or healing can come from a myriad of resources and people, so make sure to treat everyone and everything around you with love and respect.