Listen to what people are saying to you - God may be speaking through them.

"And the Lord told him: "Listen to all that the people are saying to you - it is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected me as their king."

1 Samuel 8:7

Listen, really listen, to the words people say to you, especially repeated words from different people, as there in their words may just lie your answers to prayers you've been seeking answers to.  As well, when you truly listen, you may just realize that you've been listening only through the ears of your worldly self - not through the ears of your heart - which just may bring you to a whole new revelation of your life.

Misconception and fallacy

“Beware of false prophets… you will fully recognize them by their fruits…” Matthew 8:15-16 AMP

Avoid being hasty, and do your research before you make decisions to trust someone who is offering you, so-called, opportunities of a lifetime.  Unfortunately, in today’s world there is a lot of purposeful misconceptions and fallacies taking place, so we must always be cautious before jumping into any life changing opportunity.  Our first steps should be to: take some deep breaths, ask God for direction, pray with all faith, do research, and then wait on God’s guidance.  If it is truly for you, then God will make sure it happens, and if not, He’ll make sure you pass it up.  

So remember to wait on Him, and let Him take control of your decision making. I guarantee that if you do, the opportunity of a lifetime will be one that leaves you filled with amazement, standing in awe at the miracle workings of the Lord our God.