Don't believe everything you hear.

"My dear friends, don't believe everything you hear.  Carefully weigh and examine what people tell you..." 1 John 4:1 MSG

Consider the source of whom you are speaking with, as what they are telling you about somebody else, is similar to what they told somebody else about you.

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